One of the main purposes of dating is for two or more people to evaluate one another’s suitability as a long-term companion or spouse. Often physical characteristics, personality, financial status, and other aspects of the involved persons are judged and, as a result, feelings can be hurt and confidence is shaken.

Skip to: 00:06 Lost in the listening distance, as dark locks in.

What’s The Purpose Of Dating?
Think about it. People date for different reasons. Some want to have fun and get out of the house. Some want to meet new people. And others want to find a lifelong partnership. If you’re not dating with a purpose, then how do you know when you have found the right person to have a relationship with?

Skip to: 22:08 All that matters is… that we catch that boat tomorrow.

Dating without a purpose is like getting in your car and driving in random directions, hoping you will get “somewhere that makes you happy.” Chances are, you will probably get lost, frustrated, or go in circles. That’s what it’s like with dating. If you don’t have a target, or destination in mind, then you won’t get there.

Dating with a purpose is essential if you want to find someone to create and sustain a healthy relationship. Think of dating as interviewing someone for the most important role as your partner. You need to prepare, plan, and decide what you want. Creating a dating plan is not easy. It takes effort, patience, self-discipline, and the wisdom of others who have done this successfully.

The good news is… is that it’s worth the effort!

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What’s The Point Of Dating – Episode 001